A Fabulist is a person who invents fables.
You are a Fabulist, whether you realized it all this while, or not. Perhaps it is time for you to examine the kind of fables you have been inventing; to weed out those that don’t serve you and to deliberately invent and create those that empower and encourage.
Each decision you take is a paragraph added to your fable. Every major choice you make begins a new mini fable which adds itself seamlessly to the on- going saga you are weaving. These fables become your own reference points in the future. They are the ones you refer to decide whether you will be able to conquer your latest challenge or not. They are frequently the ones that give you courage, or take it away.
Your fables are also reference points for others, just as their fables are a reference point for you sometimes. These fables may instil fear in others, or they may give them courage. They may wound by their tone of doom or they may heal with their clear voice of hope. The choice is yours.
I used to think I was a victim of my story until I realized the truth that I am the creator of my story. I choose what type of person I will be and what type of impact I will leave on others. I will never choose the destructive path of self and outward victimization again.
~ Steve Maraboli
Like all fables, your own fables take a life lesson and weave a larger than life story around it so that the lesson is given depth and stature. Sometimes you make the mistake of taking an incidental, haphazard anomaly to be a lesson. To turn this anomaly into a fable, to erect a complex edifice of words around it, is to set it in concrete and make it more important that it actually is.
A little more deliberation would help in giving permanence only to that which deserves to remain for posterity. You are, after all, making a statement with your life. You would naturally want to polish the phrases and straighten out the syntax; you’d want to unravel the complex sentences and streamline the punctuation. The fable of your life will be read by many eyes, specially by those of children and loved ones.
When faced with a challenge, happy families, like happy people, just add a new chapter to their life story that shows them overcoming the hardship. This skill is particularly important for children, whose identity tends to get locked in during adolescence.
~ Bruce Feiler
Does your collection of fables say that the world is a benevolent place with enough resources for you to create joy? Do you have a fable which demonstrates that adverse circumstance are not problems to be defeated by but challenges to overcome? Is there a fable which shows that you were loyal to your North Star and that you walked towards it relentlessly?
Re-examine the fables you are dropping off in your wake, Fabulist!
Are they the stories you wanted to tell?
You read and write and sing and experience, thinking that one day these things will build the character you admire to live as. You love and lose and bleed best you can, to the extreme, hoping that one day the world will read you like the poem you want to be.
~ Charlotte Eriksson
We make up stories in order to live…wonderful post again 🙂
Thank you Janaki! 🙂
There will be people who will be calling me names, there will be people who will try to pull me down, who will say that it won;t work out. And I will stand there, proving them wrong..
(play epic background music)
*Looks in awe as epic background music plays*
Fantastic post. The need to add empowering and encouraging chapters needs to come from within. Only then will they be effective.
The will and the glory… all of it exists within Prathima. 🙂
Re-examine the fables you are dropping off in your wake….beautifully summed up….great post 🙂
Thank you Jaibala! 🙂
This is very inspirational. I never looked at life this ways. I always find it difficult to come in terms with a few facts of life. I had forgotten I was the fabulist. Thanks for the reminder. 🙂
My pleasure Pooja. 🙂
The quote in the end did it for me! *Applauds*
The quote at the end made it all come together for me too Shailee. Thank you. 🙂
Wow Dagny I love you. You made me introspect again. Re-examine the fable you are dropping off…wow!
Love you too Sfurti. 😀 Your enthusiastic comment made me grin. 😀
Every moment of our lives we are creating these stories, right, Dagny? Hoping that the experience of someone somewhere will resonate with our own stories. Super post as always. With every post, you build an impressive, to borrow your own phrase, ‘edifice of words.’ I stand outside the edifice and look up in awe. 🙂
When a woman of your discernment and skill with words and ideas pays me such a compliment, I do think I might permit myself to go overboard. 😀 Thank you Cynthia! 🙂
We begin a new tale at every turn of life…A fable, a lesson and a greater picture! Wow Dagny how do you come up with these?
Random Thoughts Naba
Just as you come up with lovely stories that are so eloquent upon the point you want to put across. 🙂 We all have our talents, don’t we? 🙂 Thank you Naba!
There is so much abundance in the world if only we are open to it. My word for 2013 was abundance and it was such an amazing year. truly is a benevolent universe.
I do believe that when we remain focused on a thought- as you remained focused on abundance in 2013- you give the universe a chance to manifest it again and again in your life. Thank you for giving me a chance to reinforce my faith. 🙂
Another fabulous post! What stories do we want to tell about ourselves? That question in itself is a great motivator…
Beauty Interprets, Expresses, Manifests the Eternal
Thank you Beloo! 🙂 Your words are my fuel!
Fantastic post! Our life truly is a story in motion, and we have the power to change course whenever we like. We just need to remember that, and be brave enough to retell our story.
It isn’t easy to be brave enough to retell our story. It isn’t easy to open your vulnerable side to the world.
Thank you Gypsy!
Decoding one’s own fables 🙂 Interesting and thought provoking again
Decoding and examining your own fables with detachment… as if you were studying the fables of another. That’s when you realize how much grace and beauty lie in the fold of what you thought was ordinary. Thank you Afshan. 🙂